If I’m being totally honest here, I’ve never really felt “sexy.” And I don’t mean that in a pathetic loser way. I just mean I feel like I typically fall more into the “cute” category than the sexy category. Even if you’re someone who does see themselves as sexy, do you ever wonder how to feel sexier?
Well, a recent Reddit thread just asked women to explain what makes them feel the most sexy. So because ladies should always help lift up other ladies, I shared their best answers here with you. Because we all deserve to feel our sexiest.
1. When She Takes Care Of Herself
Self-care and strutting in a killer pair of heels, dressing confidently. If I had money for nice lingerie, that too.
2. When She Has A Good Hair Day
A good hair day – Bad hair days distract me professionally. Doing well professionally makes me feel sexy/confident.
Clothing – anything that shows off my upper back/shoulders. Yay pullups!
3. When She Wears Silk Clothes
Wearing any kind of clothes that are made out of silk.
4. When She Wears Corsets
5. When Her Cheekbones And Hair Are Looking Fly
My CHEEKBONES and my HAIR. I love when they’re both just poppin’ one day and then I know it’s gonna be a sexy day for me
6. When She’s Pole Dancing
Pole dance. I’ve been dancing for two year now, it’s a great physical workout and forced me to be more sensual. When I pole I feel so damn sexy.
High heels. Something about them makes me feel more confident.
A good smokey eye. Nothing says sexy like a smokey eye. It makes feel seductive.
7. When She Sleeps Naked
Sleeping naked. I feel free.
8. When She Has A Good Day At The Gym
A good day at the gym. Set a new PR today and could not stop checking myself out.
9. When She Poses In Front Of The Mirror Like A Porn Star
Sometimes I pose in front of the mirror in an almost pornstar-like manner, hair messed up and lips parted and clothes messed up and just, really in your face sexy. Then I go out about my day. Just knowing that I can look like that whenever I want to, if I want to, makes me feel super sexy inside.
Also, Lacey, matching underwear.
10. When She Wears Red Lipstick
Red lipstick, lacy underwear, being tired, clacking high heels, certain music
11. When She Wears Tight Jeans
Tight jeans, because I know my ass looks good.
12. When She Wears Boxer Briefs
Wearing boxer briefs
13. When She Has Sex
14. When She’s In A Sexy Cocktail Dress And Heels
A really great fitting cocktail dress + heels.
What makes YOU feel the sexiest? Comment your thoughts below!
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Candice is a staff writer here at Elite Daily. She possesses both the body and the humor of a 15-year-old boy while she enjoys the lifestyle of a 75-year-old woman.